It is important for her ego that the men she’s dating have certain qualifications.And as she starts dating a man, she’s full of push-pull.girl has a little bit of Sarah in them – this composite we’re drawing is simply the most extreme iteration of it.Here’s the backstory, taken from my experiences with the three girls.
The innocence comes across as capitulation, and flips a big switch in a man – his desire to take care of a woman. with a narrowing of the eyes, a crossing of the legs, a little bite of the lip – and she’s attractive enough that few men are going to turn her down.
She knows (instinctively) that if she truly opens herself up in that way, she’s putting herself in a position to be hurt.
And she’s so insecure about who she really is that she’s just not going to let a guy who’s fucking her have that kind of power over her. Well, most importantly, do your homework and follow your instincts.
One morning she’s in his kitchen, wearing his oxford shirt and cooking breakfast for him. ” The next morning, she meekly apologizes, shows up for sex, and pulls the guy deeper into thinking that if he tries just a *little* bit harder, she’ll change for him.
She tells him she’ll see him later that night, then flakes out and heads to Kiss and Fly with me where we’ll dance the night away. And this is the genius – mad or otherwise – in how she handles a man.