That’s a lot of responsibility for someone you’re just getting to know. By being the gracious receiver of a man’s gifts, you are actually giving to a man and creating the space he needs to chase you.When you give more to a man, he gives less and loses his impetus to pursue. This may be the hardest of all for the woman who has achieved a level of success in the workplace.Should women put aside the few brush-offs they’ve received and forge full-force ahead?Or should they sit not so patiently for the hypothetical “one” to come along?
I thought that while every so often a strong, intelligent, independent woman would approach a man herself, that this was the outlier and not the norm.(Does this mean those from the Midwest are the best mid-point?) Of course you should be simultaneously dating and texting as many people at the same time as possible, how else would you maximize efficiency?Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing.